Just as i'm on the verge of it she tells me to withdraw, but i wanna keep it in?

My girlfriend and i are trying to save 拢5000 for our new home, everytime we get close to it she sees something in the shops she wants to buy, we have 拢4600 sitting in the bank but now the bloody january sales have started she wants to withdraw 拢750 to spend on clothes. It's the same story every time we get close to our 拢5000 she takes out a good few hundred to go shopping, we'll never get a deposit at this rate, any ideas how to stop her withdrawing our money?|||give it all to me hun!!! that will stop her!!!





you pull em in...hook, line and sinker...........every time...





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|||Transfer it to an account that requires 30 days notice to withdraw money|||Haha very clever! Get a separate bank account that she doesn't know about and deposit funds in there.|||maybe she is avoiding buying a house together...maybe she does not see a future in your relationship_|||Say NO!|||Ask her why she keeps withdrawing the money - perhaps she isn't ready?


You need to have a heart to heart talk about this.|||lol.......you got me to read this question under false pretences.|||HOW MANY CLOTHES DOES SHE NEED. DOESN'T SOUND LIKE SHE WANTS A HOUSE. TIME FOR A GOOD TALK WITH HER.|||tell her no no no.....she must stop squandering an keep saving, take control of the account if she is being irresponsible|||Dump her, you'll have the cash in no time.|||just say no. what is more important here?|||i'd let you keep it in for as long as you'd like. The rewards for keeping it in are far better than to keep withdrawing|||maybe she doesnt want a new home. whos idea was the new home? if shes withdrawing money as soon as you come close to the total then im guessing shes having doubts.








talk to her and find out what shes thinking.|||open a account that needs both signatures, and be strong and say NO|||i think hes right talking to hr will not work|||Maybe she isn't mature enough for this. Sounds like she isn't ready for any of this. If you can't talk with her and ask her to stop it, you may need to cut off the finances completely.|||tell her to not to use this account so that won't have a problem and tell her to create a separate account for her shopping dues|||Sex and banks are the same as soon as you withdraw you lose interest!|||it sounds like she cant deal with money, so comprimise. Agree a certain amount to deposit and a certain amount to spend and agree not to make any big purchases. It sounds like she's being a bit selfish wanting to blow 拢750 on cloths rather than helping to prepare for your future.|||tell her if she waits until you get a house then she go shoppin and buy w/e she wants with no guilt.|||HAhahahah, Funny, funny. good luck man.


Just do like I did, put your foot down. Then in 6 months you'll find out that you have a credit card that you didn't know about, in your name only, and have 2x the debt that you wouldn't let her spend in the first place. Love is a many splendor thing my friend.|||I think you should go wild and enjoy the withdrawl. Splash it all around her. Also ask if she has any friends you could do some withdrawing with. Enjoy.|||say no|||Allow some money for the things she wants and explain to her that only a certain amount can be spent on shopping and a certain amount must be put in savings for your home. And if she doesn't get it, you may look closer at purchasing a home with someone who doesn't understand or prioritize their money.|||You could always open up another account, put some money in there and one day surprise her and say 'Darling, look at all the money we've saved (in a cokney accent)|||chop her card up or get rid, wots more important? u or shoppin????|||I have the same problem with my girlfriend, however that is during sex.|||i have learned the hard way.If she dosn't respect your feelings on this and refrain from spending money now,things will get worse and worse and you will end up in debt.Tell her it has got to stop or things are over. if she is serious about you she might get a grip,if not well don't get involved it will end in tears.|||boy oh boy have you got one there%26gt;%26gt;dump her before you owe the bank money!! she thinks she's a WAG|||it's possible that the fault is yours; you may have failed to make her grasp the numerous advantages of not withdrawing until you got over and done with the deposit. Perhaps you should get somebody more experienced to explain her the details (theory and practice) of the fruits of not withdrawing etc.. I suggest your bank manager .....and i am sure she will thank him for it. And you may also learn how to convince her in the process.|||Not the question detail I expected.She needs to get a part time night job to cover her 'expenses' and will soon see the error of her ways.